Thanks, Dotsie, for your sentiments, your ongoing kindness.

Anita died a month ago today. I remember after Gary died, for years I was aware of the day he died on the monthly-versary of that day and the exact time, what I was thinking and feeling. At first it was very intense. So I send Dan an e-card. Which seems so inadequate. I know this is part of his growth. Loss is all about growth for the ones who remain behind.

Yes, blessings - a very good thing.

Vi