Vi, your continued journey from your first post about Anita to your continuation a month after her passing is touching. My best to you and her dear husband, Dan.

Dianne, You have posted some interesting questions. I am still in contact with Linda(who lost her spouse in November.) I think it is still to early to ask her outright, but I just might mention your post. If she offers any feedback, I will ask her if I can use it in my reply.

chick