EagleHeart - I too celebrate Roberts BIRTHDAY not his deathday - honoring someones LIFE is so much more fun than pondering on their death - dont you think [Big Grin]

Dotsie - I'm sure your dad really appreciated your visit. I hope you dont think you're dishonoring your mom somehow if you start to "drift" away from the schedule visits to the cemetery. Visiting her gravesite is a cleansing for YOU -- HER spirit is ALWAYS with you

HUGS DEAR LADIES