Thank you all. Yes, this is what I'm looking for. Please keep sharing.

I do the things mentioned above too. But sometimes it just doesn't seem like enough. And I, too, at times feel impatient with someone who doesn't make the changes they need to make to improve their lives. But all in the right time - some of us have to be hit in the head with a 2x4 several times to get the guts to make the needed change or to see clearly what we need to do. I've been there numerous times. And sometmes what I may think someone needs to do, is not what they need to do. They need a solution right for them, not the one right for me.