DJ, thanks for the suggestions on what to say. There was a time I had no idea. Now it's easier, now because I've been there. I think it's something kids need to be taught, so they won't feel so awkward around those who have experienced loss. It could be like teaching them manners.

Daisygirl, may your heart be wrapped in love and may this heal your pain.

This time of year it's sometimes harder, I think, because our loved ones that were once part of the holidays, are no longer here in person. Christmas songs can trigger the pain for me. That happened yesterday while I was shopping for my mom.