I joined E-Harmony for three months several years ago. After filling out their extensive questionnaire, they matched me with men I had nothing in common with and way outside the distance I specified. I found myself wondering why anyone would want to fill out an extensive questionnaire if it did not produce the matches specified. Still don't know, but didn't sign up again after the 3 months. I'm just getting out there and doing the things I love -- hiking, cycling, volunteering -- and if I meet a kindred soul that would be great. If not, I'm having a heck of a time.