Sometimes Anne and everyone, being the nice girl, giving of yourself anf trying not to be hateful comes back and bites us right in the behind.

I have painted myself into one hell of a mess regarding my ex. Trying to be kind and Christian, I allowed him back into my home for a time, when he was ill. Since then he has lost yet another good job and is not only under foot constantly but he is doing it on my dime. He is on a meager unemployment for now and able to contribute, but I am in fear of when that isn't viable anymore and he has nothing to contribute.

I am on my last nerve. I have never been so mad at myself for being stupid. I feel like I adopted, instead of married this loser...I confess at being one of those foolish women who didn't learn from my previous experience.