OK, so maybe this sounds cold...and since when did his inability become your problem Ms Amazing Chatty?

I don't mean to sound hateful or cold AND he is not your responsibility. HE is his responsibility.

I am all for caring and generosity AND I believe there is a balance that must be struck between tearing oneself to shreds for the sake of another and insisting on the other person standing responsible for themselves.

If he were your partner, husband, child or some other such relationship...or even a friend whom you chose to help...I would think differently.
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Love and light, hugs and blessings

MamaRed (Jerilynne)
www.mamaredspeaks.com
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Coming Summer 2009 "Kick-Butt Kindness: 52 No Cost Ways to Ripple Kindness 'Round the World"

Let's create Kick-Butt-and-Take-Names Lives!