On the other hand, whatch ya gonna do? Put the guy on the street?

I can understand Chatty's dilemma. I don't think I could bring myself to do that either. I would need Dee and Mamared to give me a shove as well...but I don't think I would be able to live with myself. I would do everything possible to help him get a new job, and I would help him find a new place. But I couldn't just shove him out the door. So Chatty, - do whatever you feel comfortable with, and help him to help himself.
It's hard to be a softy. I know.
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As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.
Goethe