Chatty...thanks for not being mad...Edelweiss...I guess I don't have an ex-husband that I'd care enough about to allow back in my house for any reason... smile

I know it's not that easy...throwing the guy out...but, one has to wonder his motives for coming back to you, Chatty...he knows you'll take care of him despite everything?

It's not dumb to be soft...it's what keeps us human...I think I've been hit so hard so many times that I don't have the compassion that you and Edelweiss have...I guess it would depend on the guy and the circumstance.

You'll do what you need to do when you need to do it. That's all that matters.

Hang in there girlfriend.

Hugs hugs hugs
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Dee
"They will be able to say that she stood in the storm and when the wind did not blow her away....and surely it has not.....she adjusted her sails" - Elizabeth Edwards