Chatty...I know it is ever so easy to be on the outside looking in and saying "do this or do that". It is ALWAYS that way, eh? (Grin).

Regardless of your choice, you are loved, you are loving and you are lovable...and that is what counts.

There is a difference between soft and being walked on or taken advantage of, that's for sure. And no, it isn't "dumb" to be a softy! Far from it.

When I hear how this person has taken advantage of you and brought you to the point where you are with regards to other men, my heart hurts, literally!

As Dee says, you'll do what you need to do when you need to and we are here!
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Love and light, hugs and blessings

MamaRed (Jerilynne)
www.mamaredspeaks.com
www.onemillionacts.com
Coming Summer 2009 "Kick-Butt Kindness: 52 No Cost Ways to Ripple Kindness 'Round the World"

Let's create Kick-Butt-and-Take-Names Lives!