Of course if the X is someone hatefull, then eeeee....don't let him in! But I know more peacefull divorced couples then the other way around. My brother and his x wife, get along better now, then when they were married. So, it's all about the relationship. An X doesn't have to be a number one enemy.

Princess made some excellent suggestions. Yes, giving him a moving date is good.

Okey,...I'm going to start a list on how to gross your x...to MOVE out!

1. Spread itching powder in his bed...(hee hee hee)
Any other suggestions?
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