These are all good thoughts. Maybe the best way to assist him is to help him get assistance. It sounds like he should be able to do so.

chatty, is there any part of you that likes the company? Just wondering because I know you're a people person. Is there anything you can muster up that makes it okay in your mind for him to be there? If so, it might make you feel a little lighter and better to focus on that while he's there.

It's a new year. Maybe you can use that as an excuse for making changes...
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