He has several friends, ones married and the other is single but he isn't offering anything.

I won't be taking on an extra job, just picked up two new edits that will keep me busy for awhile.

I am just ignoring him for now. I go along for a long time Dee, before I have suddenly had enough. Thats when the worm turns and this nice, pleasant, helpful lady turns into the bitch from hell. Thats when he will leave my home forever. I'm not quite there yet but the fires are beginning to smolder within.

Oh and Celtic, he ruined my credit and ran me out of money when we were married, thats one of the reasons I divorced him in 2001. He didn't work for the first three years we were together. I paid the freight for everything. Dumb, yep it was dumb. I mentioned having a total breakdown after my sister died suddenly and I meant it, or that scumbag would have never gotten past my radar.