I'm sure that is a HUGE relief that your children are behind you. As a child myself, I care about what my parent's mental state is. But I also know it's their own decision in the end. Once you have the emotional support, along with the love from family friends, it truly is so helpful. Having sorta been there/done that, I remember all too well the feeling of "what might others think of me". When it's all said and done, you'll know how your true friends/family are!