Thanks Jabber,

I'm still in limbo. Because I'm on vacation from work next week, I am supposed to be talking to hubby, but there is always something putting it off. Today it's Valentine's Day, tomorrow, it's dinner at mother in law's,(definitely not a good time) Monday, I'll be spending the day with a friend. When is the right time! Plus, I don't know how to begin. He burys his head in the sand, which makes it difficult to have a serious conversation about our situation. We just go about our business as if nothing is wrong, which makes it more difficult for me. However, I am determined to try and discuss things openly and honestly with him and hope he reciprocates. What I get a bit angry about is that he KNOWS our marriage is over, but for some reason is very reluctant to accept it.