Hi Di,

Yes, that's true. I'm back again because I always think of more things after I post something! Maybe this is a better way of describing it, Jabber...as if I was a hired hand. He just worked all the time and didn't want anything to do with us. It was as if we were intruding on his life. He was more interested in saving money than spending time with his family. Sad, but true. Now he wants us to forget that part of it and carry on as if nothing was wrong. Like your husband, a product of his upbringing, but that could only be used as an excuse for his actions.


Edited by Expat (02/15/09 04:22 PM)