Zee...you sound like a very strong and loving wife. It's good to remember that he loves his children as much as you love yours and it's a struggle for everyone. I hope everything works out for you and with time and patience and love your family will begin to mesh.
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Dee
"They will be able to say that she stood in the storm and when the wind did not blow her away....and surely it has not.....she adjusted her sails" - Elizabeth Edwards