Dee, this may be the reason the children visit you so often. You are their light. You play with them, bake with them, you show them there is another way to live. By doing this, you are opening them a door of hope. By just being there for them is the most valuable gift you can give.

I don’t think you can solve this problem. And as long as the children don’t go hungry or get beaten, I don’t believe the authorities do anything. I know, because we investigated, the American laws, what “A” was concerned. Maybe you could get the children more involved with church functions. Maybe a big sister organisation could help fill the gap that Judy so much needs.

If it isn’t too much for you, Dee, just playing a grandmother role, is irreplaceable. Judy will never forget you, and always be attached to you. That is your life time reward.