What Orchid says is true Di, but don't you dare feel embarrassed. You are a good wife, and you work your tail off right along side this man building a life and very good business. It isn't unusual to feel left out when a special occassion arrises, you're a normal woman after all, not a saint... It takes each one to show their love and dedication to the others needs...

Dotsie may have the answer, talk to him nicely about your feelings and see what he says. It can't hurt!
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