Ah yes, basking in it, JJ, thanks. I agree with you, there are so many reasons why people might not be here as much. One of my favourite thoughts on it is that maybe, hopefully, many women have found such healing and empowerment here that they are now living rich and healthy lives, perhaps even paying forward to others all that they were able to find here.
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When you don't like a thing, change it.
If you can't change it, change the way you think about it.

(Maya Angelou)