I think I would invite her over to my place, or meet in a cafe'. Frankly that would drive me crazy, if someone was always cleaning up after me.

Hubby and I were once invited to a couples house, who we play golf with. Between the different courses, she took out the vacuum cleaner and vacuumed under our feet! She joked about it the whole time, but it was awful. We never invited them back; too stressfull.
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