Clarity, I think the blaming game doesn’t help anyone. It all comes down to; - being happy or not. You were unhappy in your marriage; you changed the situation. Now it is up to you and you alone to be happy as a single person. And it is up to you to watch out that you don’t find another man like the last one. Learn from the mistakes, and move on.
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A friend is a gift you give yourself.
-- Robert Louis Stevenson