Dee, I want you and everyone to understand that now I am in another phase of my life and instead of laying around mooping and being sad, I have moved on. No anger but NO feelings either. I haven't seen my younger son for some 16 years and have managed just fine. If my eldest wants to be a jackass then he can hit the road as well. I have done fine on my own all these years and now I am even better prepared to accept being alone except for my true friends, and that is some of you ladies. Sassy and I will do just fine...

Humm, not trying to encourage your decision to come and live with me Dancing Dolphin, but I will brush your hair, cook you marvelous meals for you and clean your room...

Actually I'd love to adopt you, Edelweiss and Dee and we could be the new Golden Girls...plus Queen JJ, have to have a Fairy Godmother on call...