I hate to say it but I didn't believe in sex before marriage back when I was a young girl and still don't. Well at least they didn't have a baby first before marrying as many many do today. I don't condemn couples who do live together and then get married but it is to me like eating pizza everyday for a year and then winning some huge prize only to find out it is free pizza for life. See the lack of excitement that would be experienced.

I remember being hot (I wasn't dead) for Eddie for the two years we were together before marriage but we abstained and when he finally undressed me on our wedding night and for the five years afterwards we were together, it was constant fireworks each time... I will never forget that and it's too bad more women and men don't experience it.