Chatty,
I like Anne's idea of "confusing the heck out 'em"; I've got
a son like yours. The only time I hear from him is when he wants
me to send him money. His last call, I refused to send it and
had a good excuse: WB and I had to pay for WB'S mom's funeral
and it drained the checking account. Haven't heard from him since. But believe me when I say: I totally understand where you're coming from. And many a time I wonder why I gave my [all]
and got nothing but headaches. We'll just have to believe things
happen for a reason. And let it go at that. I'm working on that
[power of positive thinking thing]; but I've been working on
that a long, long time. The harder I try to fill my mind with
good thoughts, the harder [the powers of darkness try filling it
with negative thoughts]. But I'm still fighting a good fight.
IMO no one but no one should upset another person's life in a
bad way; we should all try to make the lives of people around us better, happier and lighter! Here's praying things will turn around for both of us!!!! Blessings...