I'm so happy for your revalation. You know something? I was 27 years old before I realized my father wasn't always right? Now that's some serious brain washing! [Razz]

Yes, you grew up or should I say, was born into a very sad and depressed family and might have become the family scapegoat. But the good part is once you realize, like you have, that it isn't your fault, you are free to move on. I'm sure you're looking forward to a much nicer and easier lifestyle now. Congratulations!