I'd like to say it's truth that I'm a man.But I never have no common talking topics with women.I bet you didn't konw Jia Baoyu(a character in the novel "the dreams of the chamber")I would say I'm similar to him.
A flaw can't be avoided.But what's the correct attitude towards oneself's flaw.Maybe we can let it be.Or we must overcome it.But in the old fable of the Chinese.It told us the flaws can be made use of.But I think it hard for many people to know "leaking water from crack can water the flower" I think we should envisage them.Don't fear or be anxious.Sometimes Time is the most helpful.