Mary,
One thing I can guarantee is that God does love you and will hear your prayers, and ours as we offer them up to him in your name.

I am assuming from your post that you do not want this divorce, therefore, I will pray that God will open up your husband's heart to receive your words of compromise, or whatever your words may hold for your marriage to stay intact and grow.

We are here for you, and if you need additional support, please email me. I'm not a marriage counselor, and for sure cannot tell you what to do, but I have broad shoulders.

Sendings lots of love and support your way,

JJ