I know what you have been taught. "Do all things as unto the Lord." Right? But, do you really think the Lord created you to pick up your husband's socks and dirty underwear when he has two good hands and can walk to the clothes hamper or the waste basket or sink??!!

Jesus himself said the husband is to be as Christ, willing to give his life for his bride. Giving up your life doesn't necessarily mean laying on a cross (although it can under different circumstances...) but it means willingness to lay down your bad habits, some of your preferences, putting the "weaker" vessel first.

If he truly loves you, he will learn, perhaps with a little respectful, loving, nudging, that you were meant for better things and his responsibility is to see to it that your load is light and your burden isn't heavy, especially not at his doing.