I'm going to take another avenue. Granted, my husband and I lived apart for two years because he took a job in another state and my stubborness kept me in TN (among other reasons) but today, I pick up his wet towels, socks, etc. with great joy.

I thank God that he's alive and works hard to provide for us. To me, picking up after him is small compared to what he does for me.

We both use humor in regards to this. He has this habit of kicking off his shoes and placing them under the kitchen island. I decided to just leave them there to see what kind of collection would form. At five pairs, we decided it was his new shoe closet.

However, if you are in an unhappy marriage, it could become irritating. I guess there are many things to consider but this is just my input.