Actually, my original questions was "Help me not be upset at DH". I WANT to do these things but change my attitude about doing them. I do not want to resent him. Nor do I disrespect him. He is a wonderful husband.

So, Dianne, you have helped me greatly.

This may be morbid, but if DH were to die today,I'd long to be able to pick up his messes,socks etc. Think of the widow: would she not give anything to trade places with me?

I'm praying for God to change my heart. I WANT to serve my husband as head of me...as Christ is the head of DH.

Thank you all for this perspective.

[ March 09, 2006, 01:38 PM: Message edited by: Di ]