What a beautiful post. You're so inspiring.

My ex BIL also tried to be something he wasn't. Obviously, he could have sex with my sister as they had two sons (which made me question, is he really bi-sexual?).

Anyway, he married trying to cover his sexual orientation and he became severely depressed at one time and said it was because one of his patients had died but my sister later discovered it was because he had his first male affair.

I'm so happy that your son was able to let you know and live the life he needs. To do otherwise, would be such a tragedy.