Friends, all of your ideas were wonderful and after I got over my mad out in the parking lot and watched them drive away, I started to laugh and laugh at the stupidity of the situation. This was one very good lesson for me, I didn't want to meet this cousin or her friends but my dear sainted mother said; "now Char be neighborly." I was, $65.00 worth. NOW for the important part, any of my friends are welcome in Vegas and my home and I would be happy to cook a meal FOR YOU. I don't mind picking up a check ever but (who were these people?) Lord, I'm still laughing about this. I must be a nut case. Guess we all have to learn the hard lessons along with the good ones. Next time I will follow my heart and my head....The welcome wagon is out for my Boomer buddies and you know who you are....ALL OF YOU!