Dianne, I think you know the right answer here and are hoping against all hope that maybe things will change, they won't, never do. I would find my friends elsewhere and that slug your married too is NOT a man, no real man lets his wife be treated badly by his family. He shows her respect in all things and he expects, NO insists that they do the same....Maybe after Christmas you need to "exchange" the whole bunch of them. [Wink]