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Originally posted by Dianne:
I should tell you this sad tale took place last year and I didn't tell her. Now, I'm the bad guy for not telling her! Yep, don't blame the wandering husband...blame me! I did confront the man and we had a very bad argument. I threatened to tell his wife and he just threatened me! I was in a lose-lose place. The sister of the wife called me on the phone and called me horrible names. I ended up hanging up on her it was so abusive.
How did the wife find out? And how did she and the sister know you knew? If you told them, maybe they saw you as a co-conspirator.??

Sounds like the wife was simply striking out in pain. I would think she 'knew' all along and either couldn't or wouldn't face up to it. If you had told her, you would have been seen as the source of pain and probably attacked even more viciously.

As to his reaction, Men!!
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