Since we're talking about what we would or wouldn't do, I want to say that if I told my friend that I knew her husband was cheating on her, and she got mad at me for it -- I'd rather not be friends with someone like that, who wasn't interested in knowing the truth. I prefer friends who are _seekers_ after truth.

My husband cheated on me and I didn't find out until after he said he wanted a divorce. He also tried to cheat me out of my half of our property. If I could've found ANYONE who knew that he'd cheated on me, it would've made my divorce a lot easier for me. As it was, I had to deal with his ridiculous demands. Yeah, I got the house in the end, but had to fight for what was legally mine to begin with.