Something Chatty posted got me to thinking. When is cheating really cheating? If he looks at dirty books behind your back and frequently, is it cheating?

If he visits porno sites on the Internet frequently, is it cheating?

If he forms a close, no sex, relationship with another woman, is it cheating?

If he's always looking at other women, even when you're with him, is it cheating?

If he refuses to be sexual or intimate with you, is it cheating in a way, like cheating you out of intimacy, etc.?

We don't have to go into Bill Clinton's history to describe what defines real sex but what could be cheating to a woman may not be to a man...unless he catches his wife doing the same thing!

Input or ideas on this?