Well........I'm not so sure I think it's cheating and I don't necessarily think there is something missing in the marriage if a man (or woman) watches some porn or reads a Playboy magazine now and then. And you're right, at least it doesn't spread disease (I used to work in a sexually transmitted disease clinic.) [Razz] I think I'd draw the line at phone sex though. I don't think there's something missing in the marrige - not in all cases - rather something missing in themselves. [Mad] You're right - they are pigs!!
(Present husband excluded [Wink] )
Louisa