Chatty, you are in a unique position to write a book that would help a lot of women. You could ask a lot of questions like that of the men who call you. We're all curious as to what constitutes cheating and why men (and women too) cheat. You could do a survey that would develop data unavailable anywhere else just by asking questions and taking notes. I don't think you have to get permission unless you use names, etc.

If you need help getting a list of survey questions together, I've done a few and will volunteer. It might give us all at least an idea of why some of the men on your phone do what they do.

This could be God's calling for your life. It's a way to use all of your life's experience (even the ones that do not necessarily look like blessings all the time) for the glory of God. Seems to me that God does that a lot. At least in my life.

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