None of the males I have spoken with about their cross dressing has any explanation but every one started at a young age being fascinated by the way there sisters or mothers clothes felt usually going through the hamper feeling the panties and sometimes stealing a pair to have. Most cross dressing men are not gay or even bi-sexual they just like to feel very feminine. Most are in the closet. Its the older ones, over 50 that suddenly begin to feel attracted to men, and thats what their fantasys are about. Not all but most. Then there are those that want to be dressed, make-up and all and go out to be picked jup by a man or more than one and forcedc to have sex with them both giving oral then being raped....It excites them to imagine this happening even though it is probably mostly in their minds....Strange but true.