Neither my husband nor I like to cook. Would you believe that, even though I've been married for 22 years, I have yet to cook and host a holiday meal?! My mother-in-law is a control freak and likes to have her 3 sons and their families return to her house for holiday meals. So, we oblige her. I always help with the clean-up and thank her for having us.

When we entertain (something that I would definitely like to do more often), I'm in charge and my husband does whatever I delegate to him. He runs to the liquor store, gets the ice, fires up the grill --- whatever. He always pitches in at clean-up time too and even runs the vacuum around to pick up all of the wayward crumbs. What a guy! I think I'll keep him.

Misfire