Thank you all for your kind words.

I don't think he really understands what marriage is about. He thinks cheating is any physical form of sex.

He won't go to counselling, I've tried and tried.

My counsellor told me to list out my values and expectations about marriage and present it to him, and see what his response is. I so want to let my frustrations out on him, I get so emotional when I talk to him about anything serious, I'll keep u posted.

Thanks again

[ May 18, 2005, 03:43 PM: Message edited by: nikita ]