I do phone sex for a living and none of the married men I speak to consider this cheating yet when I ask if their wives know, they stumble around and say NO? I am a witch so I say and why not if its not really sex or cheating, some will discuss this but most hang up...Dr Phil was very adament on a show he did and said ANY time taken away from the spouse and shared with another partner WAS definitely cheating....he is a cheat and it sounds to me like he is addicted. Dump the slob! He has strayed and will continue to do so, they always do... [Mad]