JJ stop stealing my stuff?? No actually have at it. This one ploy really works to curb that particular stupid response. I heard Dr. Phil say once that any time spent on the computer or TV or reading magazines about sex or doing phone sex (be still my heart and pocketbook) is cheating, no doubt about it.

Now KayB you've said he stopped and that your sex life is improved. I think maybe you are looking a gift horse in the mouth so to speak. In no marriage on the planet is a woman, or man for that matter, as sexy and desirable as when all was new and exciting. Fact of life!!! I hate men looking at magazines, the porn sites or like my ex frequenting the strip bars...while professing his undying love for me. OH sure, yea, uh huh! Kicked him to the curb. Men are only wicked little boys after all and most men are pigs. Truth, no way to sweeten that pie. I know I make my living talking to these screwed up useless, mostly married aging losers trying to live in some fantasy land.....Unless they are rolling in dough, most younger women worth there salt wouldn't give these relics the time of day, not for very long anyhow. Does it hurt, hell yes it hurts, it hurt me terribly when it happened not so much because I loved the ex but because I felt slighted, jealous not of him, but of the bodies these women had, their youth and the fact that no matter how pretty I was or how sexy I acted, I would NEVER be YOUNG again, and that killed me....and I'm being honest...Women are realists, men are not and there lies the problem....

[ September 25, 2005, 12:43 AM: Message edited by: chatty lady ]