Kay5,

My ex likes porn. It always bothered me during our marriage, so he hid it from me. In fact, recently I told him that I'd found porn in our son's room and of course, he pointed out that he likes porn and sees nothing wrong with it. I told him and I told my son that I think it harms men's relationships with real women.

But you say your husband suddenly works 10-12 hours a day. Are you sure about that? My ex started to do that also or so he said. But it turned out he was having an affair, which led to the end of our marriage. I also am pretty sure he was visiting prostitutes. Or call girls. I say this because I found some evidence on the credit card bills.