Kay5,

I have really stepped up flirting and "engaging" my husband.

They so need to feel like they are "wanted men". I figure if I don't do it, somebody else will.

Sex isn't as important to me as affection is - but I am mindful of what HE needs.

It has made HIM a more attentive husband (like now, he just walked in to check my coffee situation - isn't that sweet).

I know sometimes I get tired of being the family caretaker - and that I'm always "putting out" for others...I also figure that I reep what I sow...and as I said, I'm begining to see it come back from my husband after 20 years.

For ladies who still have a twinkle of hope in their marriage - be creative -- be flirty -- be wild -- be confident! Most men love that!

danita

[ September 26, 2005, 11:01 AM: Message edited by: Danita ]