Junbebug, I agree with what you've said and Danita seems to have her man under control so to speak. Like I said earlier, no solution fits all. Unfortunately there will always be porn and someone to look at it. I do not now nor have I ever agreed with the premise that it is okay. It has never caused any marriage to be better, nor caused a man to want and/or love his wife more. It is a bad and hurtful thing. I totally agree with Dr. Phil, its cheating even if its just time he is taking away from his wife, but it is never ever just time. Usually what starts out with a dirty magazine escalates over time to TV porn then computer porn and wanting more so the adult store boths and then the strip clubs and the lap dances and on and on and on. It is never enough for their male egos. I still think that when they say theres nothing wrong with porn, say to them okay then lets discuss it with "your" mother!! Amazing how defensive they become then. Oh if only this were a perfect world, heck I'd still be happily married.

[ September 26, 2005, 12:51 PM: Message edited by: chatty lady ]