beachlady,

You need to look for the HISTORY on the computer. HISTORY can even be listed under GO on some computers. OR - if a web page has been left on the screen you can use the back button < to see previous sites listed. That is how I first discovered -by accident- that he was viewing porn on the computer.

My husband had 'turned off' the HISTORY on his computer - and I just happened to' turn it back on'....that's how I found out about the second go 'round, that he had NOT stopped visting the porn sites.

But going into settings to change the HISTORY might be a bit trickier until you become a little more computer saavy!! And you will learn, I am certain, don't be afraid...!

I hope things can work out for you and your marriage. Good luck.