Katebcca,

If you don't want to be included in your parents ongoing battle, you have a right to tell them so. It will cause some friction between you at first, but it may make them both work some sort of truce if they don't have you to complain to.

I had to set some boundaries with my mother. She would complain to me about my siblings and for a long time I listened but I learned how to not take on her problems.

Daisygirl